Thursday 19 March 2020

Our funders are the best!

I love snowdrops.  For me they are always a sign of good to come...


Arts Council England were the first to send a very lovely email letting us know they understood what was happening, knew we would be worried and wanted to offer us some reassurance.  "All grant conditions are removed with immediate effect for the next 3 months".  What did they want in return?  Just that we looked after each other and looked after our communities.  We can definitely do that.  Thanks Arts Council England.


Some mini knitted pockets we offer people to keep small treasures
and use to help them at tricky times. 



Next came a public announcement from a number of funders including Lankelly Chase, and then followed the very lovely email personalised with a lovely message from Joe.  Look after yourselves he said, we are hear to support you so you can support your community.  We will keep in touch so we can work things out together, and let us know if and where we can help.  We will indeed.  Thank you Lankelly Chase.


A rainbow in Barrow March 2019.  

Next came a number of messages and emails from the National Lottery Community Fund who are our major funder as we are a lucky recipient of one of the Women and Girls' Initiative Grants.  They offered reassurance that they are ready to be flexible, and told us that there won't be any pressure in relation to targets and timescales.  Clair let us know she would be around if we needed her or had any questions.  Thanks Clair.  Emails like this mean we can concentrate our efforts on doing what we are here to do and remove so much of our worry.  Thank you to all at the National Lottery Community Fund.  When this is over we are looking forward to catching up with you all.

Lastly, the Office of the Police and Crime Commissioner who were checking we were all staying safe, and Barrow Borough Council who are working hard to make sure services will still be in place when this is all over.  Thank you.

Thank you to all these funders and to the others who are encouraging us to get on with things.  Your support means such a great deal and here is a very big and heart felt thank you for all of here in Barrow.

Love, Rebecca and all at WCM xxx

Wednesday 18 March 2020

Barrow is my favourite place!

Well it has been a very long time since we posted on our blog as we moved to having a website www.womenscommunitymatters.org and social media became easier to post on.  Blogs were much more popular when posting to Facebook involved a few sentences/a link rather than the plethora of options we have now!

I felt the time was perhaps right for us to return to the blog world and share something about our week.  Life feels uncertain for us all and the start of the Corona virus outbreak saw thousands of posts about fighting over toilet rolls.  This week has been a whole different experience.  And I think that is because I live in Barrow.

Monday...one of our staff is off work at the moment and we urgently needed to get in her desk drawer.  In the middle of all the difficulties, "break it open" I said.  Rachael with a much more reasoned response said, "I've called Tom".  Would he come out to open a desk drawer?!  Very soon he arrived, opened the drawer with a smile and then also fixed a door that wouldn't stay shut, gave us some advice on a couple of other things, and went on his way.  Our new member of staff, Katy, said, "who was that lovely man?"  "Tom Burrow", I said...."from Burrow's on Dalton Road.  We like to stay local and always get excellent service."

Tuesday came and we realised we needed lots of stationary.  It is is the time of year when we restock lots of our stationary ready for the start of a new financial year, setting up new files and getting organised.  Things have been a bit busy and we were a bit late with our ordering...I thought we might have to wait for things.  Wednesday arrived and Phil arrived with his trolley and all our stationary.  He brought it from the car park, along the corridor, up in the lift, through 3 sets of doors along another corridor and stacked in under a table in the staff office.  He made a lot of trips and the 12 boxes of paper looked particularly heavy.  After his 5th trip I asked whether there was any chance of having the invoice quicker than usual to help with staffing here.  (I don't want much!!)  Seemingly he knew that was what I would ask and whipped it out of his shirt pocket.  More staying local and more excellent service from Heaths on Dalton Road. 

It is not just the very speedy service (which being a fast kind of person suits me perfectly) it is the friendly, happy to help Barrovian way of doing things that I love so much.

Wild garlic wraps tonight

It's hard to know how to respond to the changing world we currently find ourselves in.  I have lots of plans and actions plans, but it doesn't feel quite enough.  Yesterday I made cakes, tonight I made wild garlic flat breads and big little pancakes (so named by my children) and sharing them with others, things feel a bit better.

I think baking might be what I need to do.  What about you?
...and some 'big little pancakes' ready for breakfast

Tomorrow I want to tell you about how very lovely and wonderful our funders have been.  Not just a bit good....but very good.  I will tell you about it then and I might make bread!

We are going look at sharing some stories and bits and pieces on here...this was the practice!

For now I wish you all good night and lots of love from all at Women's Community Matters.

Love, Rebecca xx


Friday 14 November 2014

Volunteering at Women’s Community Matters

Volunteers are at the heart of our service here at Women’s Community Matters.  The day-to-day life of the centre would be impossible without their hard work and dedication.  Volunteers undertake a wide variety of roles including staffing reception, facilitating groups, offering one-to-one support, cleaning, managing the clothes bank, admin, gardening, sewing, fundraising – the list is endless!  We are currently looking to recruit volunteers to become part of the ever-growing team here at the centre and we hope you might be just the person we need!

 Are you interested in supporting women from the local area?  Do you hope to meet new people and give something back to your community?  Do you have particular strengths such as cooking, cleaning, computing or admin skills?  Or maybe you want to learn some new skills?  Are you hoping to build a career in support work or have you retired but feel compelled to continue giving?  Whatever you have to offer you have a place here with us!


To become a volunteer at Women’s Community Matters you simply fill in our short ‘Volunteer Registration Form’.  Once we receive your registration we will arrange for you to come and have a tour of the centre with one of our staff members.  If you decide the centre has something to offer you a 20-minute informal interview will be arranged at your convenience; this will be a chat about what you hope to offer the centre as well as what we can offer you!
 

Following this you will complete an induction and have the opportunity to shadow existing volunteers to learn how the centre works.  We also have on-going training available throughout the year around confidentiality, boundaries, safeguarding and listening skills, with potential for further training from other services. 
 

If you are interested in becoming part of our team at Women’s Community Matters please contact Katy, our Development Worker, for a ‘Volunteer Registration Form’:

Email: katy@womenscommunitymatters.org

Telephone: 01229 311102

We look forward to hearing from you!

 

 

 

 

Our Beautiful Women


Our Beautiful Women course has just come to an end for the third time.  Once again it was an honour to share the journey with a group of women who were brave enough to open up and let others truly see them.  I cannot put into words how incredibly powerful it is to be alongside a group of women as they bond and share stories; stories so deep and meaningful that they often bring you close to tears.  I’m happy to say that the group have formed friendships that will hopefully continue into the future and it is wonderful to see them in the centre together, getting involved in Chinwaggers, volunteering and catching up!

The ladies kindly wrote a few words about their experience of the course for us to share with you, so here they are:
 

“Doing the Beautiful Women course has been fantastic, making new friends, sharing stories, which is a big honour.  My time spent getting to know new people have been the best.  I have learnt a lot about myself and a lot about how society is about women, even though I knew that mostly, I now know there is a lot more to it.
The course has given me the confidence to be JUST ME.
         Sue Wearing

 
“I feel that Beautiful Women has given me the confidence to be who I am and that I don’t need to change for anyone.  Beautiful Women has also given me the ability to open up to others as it made me feel safe.”
        Siobhan Seymour

 “Going to Beautiful Women has made me realise the potential that I have to grow and develop more as an individual.  I have begun to accept myself and bring down my walls, allowing others to share and gain from my experiences.

It has been a great journey almost as if I was discovering myself and friends all over again.  It was challenging in parts both personally and as a group but we all helped and supported each other through it.

Friendships developed and flourished and I’ll be forever grateful for that.

Everyone needs to remember that you are enough.

Thank you to all the women that allowed me to share this experience with them – it was a privilege.

         Ayiesha Emms

 
The group are going on to complete the Beautiful Me course in January 2015, a 6-week Beautiful Women follow-on course.  If any ladies who shared this experience are listening, I want to thank you once more for taking the risk and being vulnerable.  I hope to see you all soon and I am really look forward to meeting more Beautiful Women in the coming weeks! 

To sign up to Beautiful Women simply ring Women’s Community Matters on 01229 311102 or contact Katy via email: katy@womenscommunitymatters.org

Much love to you all,

Katy: Beautiful Women Facilitator 


A project funded by...

Monday 3 November 2014

Do you ever reflect on the world or your place in it? Do you hope to feel stronger and more confident?

Women’s Community Matters: Beautiful Women
 
 
 

Do you ever reflect on the world or your place in it?  Do you long for connections with other people?  Do you hope to meet new people but aren’t sure how to go about it?  Do you hope to feel stronger and more confident?  

 
Beautiful Women could be for you!  The 6-week personal development course has been running at Women’s Community Matters since February 2014.  The sessions explore the world and our place in it through topics such as Beautiful Women, Embracing Difference, Who am I, My Journey, Love & Belonging and Reflections.  They are discussion focussed but also include group and individual activities to prompt reflection and connection!    
 
 
So, what do our Beautiful Women think?
…"I have really felt a difference in my self since being in the sessions. I've enjoyed sharing with the group and learning that I am not alone." 
…"I have learnt not to let people walk all over me and to respect myself" 
…"I'm getting stronger every day" 
…“Very empowering & humbling.  A privilege to hear other women share their innermost feelings”
…"I am happy to have met some people that are like me and in the same boat" 
…"It is good to be reminded that as a person, you do count"
 
 
Start your journey with Beautiful Women today by calling Women’s Community Matters on 01229 311102 and leaving your name and number.  We will give you a call to give you more information and confirm the start date.  The next course is due to start on Wednesday 12th November 2014, 1pm – 3pm.
 

Handmade gifts after every session

 
For now, a farewell message from one Beautiful Woman to another:
 
"After all those years as a woman hearing ‘not thin enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not this enough, not that enough,’ almost overnight I woke up one morning and thought, ‘I am enough.’ – Anna Quindlen
 
 
We are really looking forward to meeting you soon!
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

Our Services...


Clothes Bank

At W.C.M we have a free clothes bank which provides clothing for women and children.  The clothes bank is open Mon, Weds and Fridays, although access may be available at other times on request.


 
 

Free Legal Surgery

We also offer a free legal surgery clinic on a Wednesday morning with Hafiza Suleman.  This is available from 10am and 12 noon.  Please ring to confirm session is available and booking is advisable.

 

Please contact 01229 311102 or email reception@womenscommunitymatters.org for any other information.



Is vision for you...or someone you know?


The Vision programme at WCM began in September with a sense of optimism and pride; pride for the quality of the programme and optimism from all the participants in the group including myself. Vision is a 10 week life skills course delivered in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere, utilizing a safe, comfortable space and a non-judgemental policy. We encourage the feeling of ‘having a coffee with friends’ , safe in the knowledge that they are able to discuss whatever they wish to , secure in the knowledge that they are in a confidential environment .

Vision looks at life style choices as well as life skills, identifying pitfalls and opportunities as well as how to access help. We began with discussing health and wellbeing, the watch words being ‘the good, the bad and the ugly in the context of food and drink. That was a lively sessions which saw us share ideas on how to make our favourite dishes healthier (it’s not just the Hairy Dieters who can figure that one out!).

We aim to signpost on to other agencies as well as highlighting the many forms of support available at Women’s Community Matters. For a small area we are very well provided for, over 400 organisations operate in the Barrow area, offering services from practical support to free play schemes. Hand in hand with Women’s Community Matters ethos, the Vision programme offers other life style choices such as becoming involved in their community and accessing healthcare , dentistry being a major concern in our area .

The Vision programme can be accessed at any point in the 10 week rolling programme and can be used by a variety of different agencies who refer in to us. At the moment I am working hard to raise the profile of the course in the local area, it being a free to access course, I hope will engaged many of the relevant agencies. Who would not like a free resource?!

The feedback so far has been positive and I’m pleased to say the women on the course seem to be making good connections with each other and are comfortable enough to talk freely. I am confident that one of the participants has the potential to progress to peer mentoring which would such an achievement, both for the individual and the programme.

I am enjoying delivering the programme and engaging with our clients, promoting all our fabulous services and working with an amazing team. I do feel I have been fortunate to land the perfect role and am very much looking forward to continuing to develop the programme to meet the needs of women in the Barrow in Furness area.

Rachael Hoggarth   Project Worker